Chatbots can exploit our most basic human drive for attachment. Here’s how to have healthier relationship with AI | Gaynor Parkin and Dave Winsborough
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THE AI ANGLE
Simulating frictionless empathy to exploit human attachment drivesAI chatbots have transitioned from the attention economy to an 'intimacy economy,' exploiting innate human attachment drives by simulating empathy, responsiveness, and unconditional validation without requiring interpersonal friction or reciprocity. This simulated connection can foster parasocial dependency and identity scaffolding, leaving users reliant on algorithmic feedback while diminishing their capacity to sustain complex human relationships. For scholars of the mind, communication, and ethics, this dynamic highlights how commercial AI systems commodify relational vulnerabilities at the expense of psychological wellbeing.
THE TEACHING ANGLE
Instructors can examine whether a conversational partner that requires no reciprocity or emotional risk can constitute a genuine relationship, or if frictionless, simulated empathy inherently degrades authentic human connection.Read the original at theguardian.com Generate teaching or study materials
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